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hello, i have been talking to this girl i adore for a few weeks now and i fell for her so hard and one day she says "we are just friends" after i confessed my love for her. i knew i loved her because not when shes not there. its because it doesn't feel right like someone is missing it feels like i'm missing a part of me an empty feeling inside my chest. she said she felt the same way about me but then one night she said i guess the feelings changed but i know for a fact that it doesn't just change overnight like that… at least i really hope it doesn't. so my question is does she want me to move on?! or does she want me to fight for her like chase her more i truly think this girl is the one for me she completes me in every way i can imagine. i just want to be the one to ask her how her day was if it was bad then i want to be the one that makes her smile. say goodnight to her. sleep with her not in any explicit way but sleep next to her as in wake up next to her in the morning or in the middle of the night and kiss her on her forehead feeling her warmth under the cover just knowing shes right next to me i can share something special with this girl. i poured my heart out to her i open up to her with things i have never told anyone. i don't want to change her i love her as the way she already is. her beauty to me is more than a pretty face is more skin deep.. i think shes the most beautiful with no make-up on and in sweat pants or whatever. i'm in tears writing this. shes been ignoring me ever since she said we are just friends.. she wants me to live a happy life.. what does that mean?! i'm so lost and i'm so deeply in pain i don't know what to do. we are long distance but if someone can sweep her off her feet and keep her happy and not hurt her and care for her like the way i do. i guess i can be alright with that because i only want to see her happy and only wish the best for her. but i would do anything to be her everything but life hasn't been kind to me ever since i was a child but meeting this girl all the unhappy memories just faded away.. when im with her everything seems to stop just in the moment. why did i fall for a girl who plays so many mind games.. "just friends" that line is such a killer. i been out partying trying to ease the pain but then when i meet other girls all i seem to think about is her and i don't believe in rebounds i'm sorry i cannot play with other people emotions like how i got played with. its been a couple of days now that we haven't talked i don't know what to do or say i miss her so much i guess nice guys like myself never gets the girl right.. please give me some advice thank you all.
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well, none of us are inside the girl's head, so like yourself we can only guess about what she thinks of you or why she doesn't want to take things further.
You say you pour your heart out to her a lot, maybe you've been coming on too heavy and it just hasn't been fun for her being with you.
Could be she's glad to see the back of you, i dunno.
One thing's for sure, if it turns out she doesn't want to be with you, all the begging and crying won't change her mind.
I know it's easier said than done, but now it's time to be a man and take this kind of thing on the chin.
Life's gonna give you plenty more shots on the chin, so love her and hold a candle for her if you like, but move on if you must.
She probably thinks you are just playing.
Man you have the love bug BAD. Talk about heart ache. i feel for you. If you are so long distance how did you fall in love so hard? Maybe by laying it on so thick you scared her away.Why would you tell her all that stuff after only a few weeks? Maybe give her a call and keep it light-she might change her mind
Sounds like you carry alot of pain inside from your childhood years! Ok, the first thing you should do, is to seek counseling because you need to sort out the pain and understand what love is all about! Unfortunately, you felt @ ease talking to this girl, and she so happened to be the one that listenedto you speak of your inner secrets. She probably was feeling you @ the beginning, but you probably overwhelmed her with what you secretly dicussed with her and felt like she could'nt handle it! As a matter of fact, I'm sure that's what happened! You carry too much pain on your shoulder and you need to get that resolved if you want to be happy with someone….
look , let me explain this to u becuase i'm an Arab and its from our society. we are a very conservative soceity were we keep chastity by all means and our woman is our honer and if anybody touches this honer ,it may get bloody . take into consideration though that i'm talking not from an Islamic point of view but out of it COMPLETELY OKAY. so, for example if a biological brother saw his sister walking with a man,(it depends of course from one person to another) to react furiously . therefor ,the girl& boy may end up killed by the brother because she made their honer down in the ground. this is wrong in all means Islamically because he's considered as a killer because he has no right even though the girl did something wrong rather than fornicating.
4. you are right, but i have no explanation from their point of view.
"Muhammad(pbuh) unjustly executes around 600 male Jews and enslaves the women and children."
this is like typing it in a way that mohamamd pbuh is injust, this is a newschannals strategy in writing by not highliting on whats the reason behind this and what happened exactly.
first of all , it was a war and why? see the story of khaybar when the jews wanted to plot against the muslims although there were a peace contract between them. so a war started and this was the jews lost. they didn't keep their promise and they wanted to stab the muslims from behind but the creator is all knowing.
Dont waste your time with that pagan crap
